Category: Decision-making
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When kids say they want to be YouTubers, they’re telling us the truth about work
Boomers love complaining that kids want to be YouTubers instead of getting real jobs. The kids are right. A piece on what they actually mean, the psychological contract that got broken, and why the research called this twenty years ago
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What happens when a neurodivergent man builds his own brain?
Jon Mick built a 90-table database of his own mind, published his MRI data, and open-sourced his cognitive architecture. Here’s what that means for the rest of us
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So you want to build something that doesn’t repeat the same mistakes
If you’re building something and you want it to be different from the organisations that failed you, Letters from the Quiet Half is where the honest version of that conversation happens. Research, clinical frameworks, no corporate motivational posters. Subscribe free: quiethalf.substack.com/subscribe
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Why the monster myth is the most dangerous idea in child protection
If you’ve ever wondered why decades of prosecution, rescue operations, and awareness campaigns haven’t reduced the sexual exploitation of children, The Convenient Monster argues the answer is uncomfortable, systemic, and closer to home than anyone wants to admit
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Doing less without disappearing
Living with an ADHD and autistic brain often means having more ideas than energy This reflective essay explores why doing less is not failure but a necessary response to nervous system depletion burnout and the quiet work of recovery in a culture addicted to productivity
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Why late ADHD diagnosis rewrites your life story
If you were diagnosed late and are still reprocessing your life story, you’re not behind. You’re doing the necessary work. Follow Mindblown Psychology for clear, humane explanations of neurodivergence, identity, and mental health without shame or simplification
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Why some conversations now feel impossible
If conversations leave you exhausted rather than understood, this piece explores the psychology behind why dialogue collapses when belief fuses with identity, and how to recognise when shared understanding is no longer available without blaming yourself or others
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Goodbye to the shitty end of social media
If you’re tired of the enshittified end of social media and ready for calmer, more human spaces, join me on Substack, YouTube and in the pages of my books. Follow the work where depth lives, not where algorithms thrive. It’s time for a cleaner digital life
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Why women say ‘yes’ to intimacy
Women’s intimacy is shaped by biology, emotion, and neurodiversity. Learn the real motivators, avoid misinterpretation, and adapt your relationship to grow deeper over time. Stop guessing about desire — start understanding what intimacy really means for her, right now
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The Amazon Fiasco: A case study in corporate failure
This is the running dossier of my ongoing battle with Amazon Kindle Direct Publishing (KDP) and Amazon Retail support. What began as a simple attempt to update my bank details so I could be paid my royalties has become a case study in how the world’s biggest retailer fails its authors under the leadership of…
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The psychology of falling in love fast
Falling in love can feel instant, almost fated—but is it science, destiny, or both? Explore the psychology of falling in love in just ten minutes, from limbic resonance to dopamine surges, and learn what expats need to know about cross-cultural relationships
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Academia.edu charged me $371.80 AUD without warning—and refused to refund it
After Academia.edu auto-renewed a $371.80 AUD subscription without notice, I requested a refund. They refused. I’m sharing my full complaint letter publicly to warn others about their deceptive billing practices and refusal to offer support or flexibility. This is a cautionary tale worth reading.
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Try this instead: powerful alternatives to negative self-talk
Negative self-talk wears you down. This post offers gentle, practical alternatives to the most common inner criticisms. Whether you’re battling anxiety, shame, or perfectionism, these reframed thoughts can help you heal from within and speak to yourself with more compassion and clarity
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Vietnam and me: A match made in heaven?
The game’s afoot, Watson…
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Are spontaneity and impulsivity hindering your decision-making?
The article discusses the complexities of decision-making, particularly for those with impulsive and spontaneous traits, like the author. It explores the challenges posed by societal norms and expectations, highlighting the importance of embracing one’s unique neurodiversity
