Category: Relationships
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Academia.edu charged me $371.80 AUD without warning—and refused to refund it
After Academia.edu auto-renewed a $371.80 AUD subscription without notice, I requested a refund. They refused. I’m sharing my full complaint letter publicly to warn others about their deceptive billing practices and refusal to offer support or flexibility. This is a cautionary tale worth reading.
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When to leave
Knowing when to leave a relationship can be one of the hardest emotional decisions. This post offers clarity, compassion, and psychological insight for those sitting in uncertainty. If you’ve been questioning, doubting, or aching for peace—this might help you find your answer
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Dating in 2025: what men need to unlearn and relearn
Dating has changed—radically. This post explores what men need to unlearn and relearn in 2025, from consent and communication to emotional presence. Learn why outdated advice no longer works and how to build real, respectful connection in today’s dating world
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Why he’s always grabbing my b**bs
He says it’s playful. You feel invaded. This post explores the psychology behind breast-grabbing and other boundary-blurring behaviour in relationships—why it happens, what it means, and how to respond when affection feels more like control than connection
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Try this instead: powerful alternatives to negative self-talk
Negative self-talk wears you down. This post offers gentle, practical alternatives to the most common inner criticisms. Whether you’re battling anxiety, shame, or perfectionism, these reframed thoughts can help you heal from within and speak to yourself with more compassion and clarity
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Why we fall for certain people
Attraction isn’t as random as it feels. This post explores the hidden science of romantic attraction—how biology, psychology and subconscious cues shape who we fall for. Learn what really drives your emotional chemistry, and how this knowledge can improve your relationships
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Neurodiversity and romance
Neurodiversity and romance: how love lives differently in a neurocomplex world
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Why many marriages become a waste of space
Explore the emotional and physical disconnects that can develop in marriages and discover strategies to rebuild connection and intimacy
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Young women in the West… we’ve failed them
Explore the societal and psychological factors impacting young women in Western cultures, and the roles families, society, and the education system play (or aren’t playing) in their development
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Marriage and sex
…or lack of
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Age-gap relationships in Asia and menopause: Something for men to think about
A marriage between a 60-year-old Australian man and a 40-year-old Vietnamese woman offers emotional enrichment, companionship, and cultural diversity but poses risks like health disparities, menopause-related challenges, societal judgment, and differing priorities. Success depends on empathy, communication, cultural sensitivity, and proactive planning
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How to spot a woman who values physical intimacy (5 signs to watch for)
A relationship coach shares how you can identify if the woman you’re dating values physical intimacy. There are five key signs to look for, and four questions you can ask a woman on a date to determine her view on physical closeness. If you value physical intimacy and want to date with this value, then…
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10 ways the narcissistic wife destroys her husband
Women relationship coaches focus on narcissistic women, because these are mothers that raise children that are severely traumatised. There are so many men that are being domestically abused and we don’t talk about it enough.
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3 obligations women have with sex
“An insecure woman will rarely initiate sex. I’ve been married for almost 34 years and I can count on one hand how many times she has. I’m a good man and I adore her, and she knows this. Now she has cut off both sex and any intimacy. She’s never been that intimate and sex…
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5 reasons your husband doesn’t want sex anymore
“I’d rather not even attempt to try to become intimate because of how I feel after getting turned down. I’ll also add that even after coming home from work, and making dinner, or doing other chores, my stay-at-home wife can’t find the time or make the effort to look at me with admiration for putting…
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The top 5 reasons your wife has no interest in sex (the REAL story)
“I once dated a girl that would say, “OK, let’s get it over with,” prior to having sex. It turned me off, and I had to end the relationship.”
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10 things your wife will stop doing when you get married
“My first wife asked me why I wanted a divorce after 25+ years of marriage. I asked her where do you fit into my life? You are not a partner in the boardroom. You take no interest in my business ventures. You are not a partner in the playroom. You take no interest in any…
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Key points and benefits of Adlerian psychology
Adlerian Psychology offers a holistic framework centered on social interest, purposeful behavior, and personal growth. Its key concepts—including feelings of inferiority as motivation, courage, and striving for significance—provide practical tools for improving relationships, parenting, and personal development in our modern, individualistic world
